A Working Woman

Posted by Sahil, 28 Jan 2015

Whatever the time of year, there will be marriages... And there are so many friends and relatives of mine who are in between 22-30; including ME. Most of working men wants a working life partner for themselves.

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but there are certain facts you should know and keep in mind before going for a marriage with her:

 The girl is also educated as you are.

 The girl is earning almost same as you do.

 The girl is having so many dreams and aspirations. You both are human.

 I know most of you and probably your sister, never entered kitchen in life, because your mother never allowed you. Same way her mother asked her for studies; to compete in a corporate system which is not offering any special concession to girls.

 She lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life.

 She is the one, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family, name.

 We expect her to be a master-chef on her day #1. Don’t forget your home, kitchen is new to her.

 She has her own friends too, which may include boys and even men at her office. She may know those folks from her childhood and yet is willing to stop talking or meeting with them just to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities.

 Yes, she can drink and dance. But she won't, simply because you won't like it.

 She can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met.

We expect her to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more.

We never expect her to complain; being a servant, being a cook, being a wife, being a mother.

She is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her.

She just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

If you know all these facts, you understand her and want to treat her equally; you will be a great husband.

Please appreciate HER... I hope you will do...

Keep Reading. Keep Sharing.